Profile Tips
How to write a dating profile that sounds like you
Generic profiles attract generic interest. A practical method for writing something specific enough that the right person recognises you in it.
2 min read
VibeMatch Dating Advice
Dating advice for people who have lived some life
Practical guidance on profiles, conversation, first dates, and pacing — written for adults who already know what they want and would rather not waste a season finding out.
Dating After 35
Dating after 35: what actually changes
The rules do not get harder after 35 — they get more specific. Here is what genuinely shifts, and how to date in a way that respects the life you already have.
2 min read
Every guide
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First Date Ideas
First-date ideas that make conversation easier
Some plans do the talking for you. A guide to first dates designed around conversation, comfortable exits, and no unearned pressure.
1 min read
Better Conversations
How to talk to someone you like without sounding rehearsed
Liking someone makes you self-conscious, and self-consciousness sounds scripted. How to stay present enough that the conversation goes somewhere real.
2 min read
Better Conversations
Signs a conversation is becoming one-sided
One-sided conversations are tiring long before they are obvious. The signals worth noticing, a simple test, and how to step back without a speech.
1 min read
Relationships
How to date when you have a busy work schedule
When your calendar is full, the answer is fewer conversations rather than more. How to date well on limited time without stringing anyone along.
2 min read
Relationships
When to move from messaging to meeting in person
Messaging has a ceiling, and most people hit it sooner than they realise. How to know when to suggest meeting, and how to ask in a way that is easy to answer.
2 min read
Dating Safety
Dating safety: what not to share too early
Most early-dating risk comes from small details shared casually. A plain list of what to hold back, what pressure looks like, and when to use report and block.
2 min read
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Breakups & Moving Forward, Dating for Men, Dating for Women. We would rather publish a small number of genuinely useful pieces than fill these out quickly.
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